Porn Star in Oklahoma, Rekindling the Flame and Cheap Dollar Store Thrills

It must be a slow news week because the top story was the fact we had a real live porn star living in our great state. I found it amusing that we needed to know that Jesse Jane lives in Oklahoma. Looks like free publicity to me from a friend in the newsroom; I didn’t even know who she was.

In case you want to know more about her here’s a list of films she’s been in:

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1377478/

Rekindling the romance in a relationship-
When people first meet and that chemistry is hot it is euphoric like a drug and you can’t get enough of each other but after a while real life sets in and you have to take care of home, kids and career. Not taking time for each other can put stress in the relationship and unless you work at it, just like you do your job, it can fizzle.

The reason divorce is so high is because people let things go too far before they do something about it. You have to make time for each other when you don’t talk about anything else but the two of you. No shop talk, or discussing problems with the children or home repairs---just you as a couple.

During times of economic challenge marriages have an even harder time because money is tight and they have less time for those special dates. Not to mention arguing about money tends to kill a romantic mood.

You have to be creative but there are ways to have alone time even with kids and even when money is tight.


Go for a walk in a park, around a lake or along a river. Take a drive out in the country and have a picnic. Get a relative to watch the little ones or barter with friends and have a fun evening with just the two of you. Pull out the photo album and look at pictures of the two of you early in your relationship.

Give each other a massage. I'd love to borrow this guy for a while. ;o)



Here’s a website of fun inexpensive date ideas:
http://www.betterbudgeting.com/articles/frugal/frugaldates.htm

Now to a less serious note: Speaking of cheap thrills, here is a website for dollar store sex toys that aren’t really sex toys. I don’t condone using any of these items and do be careful if you try them. I don’t want y’all calling me from the emergency room although you know I’ll come anyway. ;o)

http://www.homemade-sex-toys.com/dollar/

I want this dress. :o)